While I understand that this is the worst day in the history of this country it is also a day that I am making the best to forget about my personal connection. My ex lost his brother that day and I know that they had not been to counseling. I currently do not know what the situation is nor do I really want to because Even though I am no longer involved with the family it’s still strikes a nerve. Anyway I am relaxing with the pooch watching television-nothing newsworthy-but my plan is to stay home and relax while I recuperate from my back surgery. Last night I slept very well because I borrowed my dogs sofa pillow. The bandage was taken off in the middle the night because it was irritating me. Being allergic to adhesive totally stinks. Just an FYI: I’m using my New Jersey State police bubble mug. I hope everybody has a calm and relaxing day and GodBless everyone and anyone whose lives were touched by the events 14 years ago.