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I want to provide a candid update about my relationship history, specifically reflecting on my experiences since ending my last relationship in mid-December. I made the conscious decision to stop all communication with my former partner, a choice that clearly left him feeling disappointed. He often claimed that the relationship wasn’t truly over until I explicitly stated it was. This perspective implied a need for control, which I rejected by choosing to walk away.

As it stands now, he is married, and it was his wife who decided to end our relationship. He struggled to formally close our connection, likely because he enjoyed being involved with two people simultaneously. He previously asserted that his past relationship ended six months before we started dating—an assertion I have since proven false, along with other significant lies and manipulations. This situation became increasingly distressing, prompting me to distance myself from the negativity.

During this holiday season, I am committed to moving into the new year free from any remaining negativity from 2024. While I briefly contemplated sharing this update around his upcoming birthday, I’ve ultimately chosen not to engage. Since our communication ended, he has made multiple attempts to reach out through various avenues, all of which I have successfully blocked. I have no interest in engaging with him or his current life.

Taking back control of my life has opened doors for me to socialize with new individuals, although I am not seeking a new relationship at this moment. If a connection develops naturally, I will consider it; however, after enduring four-and-a-half years of dishonesty and infidelity, I am not motivated to pursue anything serious. My past experiences with harassment have heightened my awareness of legal boundaries regarding future interactions unless specifically initiated by my ex-partner and his wife.

I have decisively blocked all attempts from him to reconnect, including through newly created social media accounts. Sharing my thoughts and experiences allows me to process my past in a therapeutic way. My primary focus is on looking ahead to a healthier and more fulfilling 2025, and I remain open to forming a meaningful connection when the right circumstances arise. For now, I am engaging in conversations with new people, but there are no concrete developments. I plan to keep my personal life private unless something significant arises that warrants discussion. Recently, I noticed attempts from my ex to communicate through a new Instagram account, but he remains oblivious to my reflections on our past, and I intend to keep it that way.