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So I’ve been working all day on Facebook writing comments and sharing stories from my colleagues and twitter family, something’s I have enjoyed writing about and some of the topics I don’t really like. I love writing about positive things and dislike writing about the negative/dramatic and dangerous things. This morning I wrote a semi opinionated piece on the deadly church shooting yesterday in South Carolina. Now this afternoon I was spending a lot of time commenting on one of my favorite docudramas Married At First Sight. I have heard many things with regard to the participants getting paid for the show/experiment which I don’t quite know what to think but I know that I don’t like being lied to about. Apparently they do get some kind of monetary amount to be on the program but I can testify first hand that the match making process does indeed work because I’ve been there. The experts are absolutely correct when they say it’s the couple’s responsibility to make their relationship successful. You have to work together the entire time and put in 100% effort in to the process for it to be a success. Something that it’s crystal clear that some of the couple’s failed. Davina and Sean only spent 12 nights, It is plainly obvious that they did not put as much effort into the process as they should have. I don’t think that Ryan and Jessica worked hard enough together to make their relationship succeed. Apparently there were some situations where Jessica and Ryan’s relationship took some not so good turns, There were six occasions where just go is offered help by the expert and she refused. There isn’t anything that the experts could do if she flat out refused assistance. It is also clear that their relationship failed because they did not get enough counseling from the doctors. It is not the fault of the experts because a couple does not get assistance I think it is the fault of the couple for not saving or putting in effort to save the relationship.

I don’t like saying anything negative about Jaclyn and Ryan even though they put in effort, The fact that he is a mama’s boy does not help obviously. Trying to live with someone other than family can be difficult for that person. Anyway their relationship with the rocks with the divorce of season two which means none of our couples stay together unfortunately. I wish things could’ve been different I wish I could’ve been talking about happy couples being married but it was not meant to be.